I NEVER KNEW JOHN BUT HAVE EMAILED JULIE. MY HUSBAND GRAHAME 48, WAS DIAGNOSED IN DEC 8TH 2006, LIFE IS SO VERY VERY HARD. I JUST WANT TO THANK GOD FOR THE LOVE THAT YOU SHOWED TO YOUR WONDERFUL FATHER WHILST DOING THE SAME FOR MY BEAUTIFUL HUSBAND GRAHAME. GOD BLESS YOU ALL